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Disrespectful Teenagers

Let’s clarify meaning of respect so that we can have a general consensus of what disrespect is. According to Merriam-Webster.com, respect is having a high or special regard; esteem; an act of giving particular attention or consideration. Therefore, disrespect is a willful act of being rude, inconsiderate, insulting, discourteous and ungracious. When a teenager is disrespectful it is a teaching moment for parents. Instead of getting angry and upset tell…
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May 9, 2013
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My Son was diagnosed with an Emotional Disturbance. What do I do?

May times we hear the term Emotional Disturbance and we panic and wonder how we are going to handle this. Emotional Disturbance (ED) is defined by the nation’s special education law, the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). IDEA defines emotional disturbance as follows: “…a condition exhibiting one or more of the following characteristics over a long period of time and to a marked degree that adversely affects a child’s…
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May 8, 2013
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When Teenagers Run Away

The struggles of being a teenager can be overwhelming. Figuring out who they are, where they fit, becoming independent but still needing that safety net of home, etc. Here are a few reasons teens run away: Too many restrictions at home Stress Impulsive response to something To avoid punishment Feel unwanted and/or unloved To take a risk, try something new To test limits Fear of failure Parents constantly fighting Bullying…
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May 7, 2013
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Identity Issues in Adopted Teens

As teenagers transition into adulthood, they struggle with many things. “Who am I?” and “Where do I belong?” questions related to identity are very common. Teenagers struggle with defining their own values, beliefs, educational goals and career paths. They struggle with how they are they resemble their parents, family and community and how they differ as well. Teens have expressed their identity through clothing, hair styles, music, tattoos and piercings…
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May 6, 2013
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Gangs – Is My Teen Involved?

The National Youth Gang Survey estimated that there were 30,000 gangs in 2011. This shows a steady increase since 2003. Over 90% of gang members are male. Common characteristics of a gang include
Has a name Display colors or symbols Hang out together Commit crime together Claim a territory Has a leader or leaders Has 3 or more members Ages 12-24 (generally)   Gangs today tend to use firearms. The most…
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May 5, 2013